Gianmarco Lorenzi

My husband spends more money on my daughter than me!?

My husband of 30 years is the breadwinner of the family. I always stayed home with the children. (My youngest is 12 now) My problem is, is that when I ask my husand for 300 dollars to spend on myself he hesitates and might not give it to me. But he just bought OUR DAUGHTER $1,300 dollar boots for the fall. I mean wtf? she is only 17 years old...I believe I have earned to wear nice clothes and she should get a job. I am so frusterated. Can anyone see where I'm coming from? and they both always hide how much he spends on her.

He does this because you have no backbone and has always allowed him to do things like this. I feel a teenager should not have anything that expensive I don't care how good of grades she has. This does not teach her responsiblity. But if he wants to buy it that is fine with me. But I would never marry a selfish man in the first place. You chose to be a stay at home wife knowing what kind of man you have. I am glad I got to know my husband before marrying him because I don't do selfish men. I ask and he gives. But I also, cook, clean, take care of the kids and his needs. In my house it is a two way street. He does his God given duties as a man and I do as a woman. It is a level of respect. I am also educated and he knows that at anytime if I chose I can go back into the workforce I keep myself trained and in school for refresher courses. Think outside the box and look toward the future. You are his maid not his wife. You are his nanny not his partner and helper as stated in the bible. Grow up you chose his ass now you deal with him and your spoiled ass daughter. I would not care I did not spend 1300.00 when she tears them up let his ass deal with it. You don't have a joint bank account and share funds? That is mistake number one. That is not a marriage. He gives you a prepaid card probably. Jacked up.