Metallic Pink

what color eye shadow goes best with a pink dress and blue eyes?

my husband is taking me to a military ball and my dress is like a metallic dark pink color. my eyes are blue. what color eye shadow combo should i do? i want to look really nice for it so your answer would mean a lot to me. thanks!
i thought you weren't supposed to match your eyeshadow to your outfit?? someone told me that was a no no.

Smoky grey eyes would be pretty, or even a romantic eye, which involves pinks and purples

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